We all are so good at giving advice and airing out our opinions to others, but we tend to ignore the same piece of advice when it actually comes to us. It’s time you finally wake up and know why actually a break-up takes place and what are the things you should really take care of post-break-up.
Oftentimes, blindsided by love, we tend to get fascinated with the whole idea of a relationship. We forget that what we actually need to do is focus on what is going on in our relationship. We need to assess the growth of our relationship. When you go out with your partner, try to talk more with each other and don’t waste your time taking selfies! Any relationship is bound to end if you both keep it on a superficial level. Please go into the depths, get to know each other thoroughly; otherwise, some very important traits in their character may go unnoticed.
We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. A lot of time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It’s time to put an end to this. It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved
-C. JoyBell C.
- Please don’t sit and cry!
Remember, sitting down and crying and starving and being in pain for that person will make no difference since the other person no longer cares for the tears you shed. All you got to do is cheer yourself up and move on.
It’s all about the way we think. It’s all in our hands to make the difficult easy, and it’s just in the way we handle it, so please, for god’s sake, think about it and act on it. Move on.
- Communication by no means is acceptable.
We should not try to communicate with the other person irrespective of whatever it is. The relationship is over, and we should accept it and move on. There’s no use in trying to solve anything when you know that trying to solve it would do nothing but deteriorate the situation even more.
- Please don’t try to seek attention!
Asking them for their attention is basically of no use. If the person genuinely loves you, they would shower you with all the attention you need without asking for it. When they are not right for you, that’s when they tend not to pay attention, and forcing anyone to seek their attention is in itself a very embarrassing gesture. It will put you in a very vulnerable situation.
- Stay away from social media for some time.
No amount of sadistic posts or cursing your ex-partner or talking about the relationship is going to make things better. Please make sure you tell your friends and family what exactly you need because it’s only them who can make you feel alright at the end of the day. So you have to be clear on what you want from them. If you want space, ask them for it.
Breakups are hard, and I get it but try to follow these steps. These will allow you to grow out of your shell, leave the past behind, and will help you shine out the way you were meant to.