Love is beyond any measurements. It can neither be bought nor be sold. But that’s not the only thing in life. There is life beyond that one person who you thought will be your forever love…
Rejections are part of life. Everyone in this world has tasted a tinge of failure or rejection at some point in their life. And rejection is perceived in a million different ways by different people. Love is beyond measurements. It can neither be bought nor be sold. Thus when we get rejected in love, we have to take the rejection and make it our inspiration to be metamorphosed into a much desirable human being.
Following is a list of 10 ways that I believe are the most suitable things you can do to cope with rejection from a loved one.
1.CHOCOLATE IS THE BEST REMEDY
Chocolate is concomitant to matters of the heart. Consumption of chocolate speeds up the functioning of love hormones in our body. On the other hand, it is also the best cure to bandage our broken hearts. Rejection is bothersome. If we consume chocolate products like chocolate pastries, toffees, or even an entire chocolate cake, it will gradually fill our hearts and body with the essence of sugar-sweet. It is time to replace that bitterness in your heart with something chocolaty.
Books are our real companions. Rejection may make us feel like we are trapped in a dark pit, but a good book brings forth rays of hope.Go to the balcony, smell the strong, comforting aroma of the coffee, and read one of your favorite books. Try to dissolve with one of the characters in the book for a while. Coffee offers you a fresh mind, and the book will definitely inspire you. I am sure you will gradually forget your rejection and develop better ideas and a little more enthusiasm.
3.HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS
Isolating yourself would make the situation worse. Call your friends and make plans to meet up with them. Even if you don’t have a bunch of friends, meet up with that single best friend who has been with you forever and hang out and do some crazy things together. Shopping can be the best idea for girls to a large extend. Guys can go to a match or a movie with their close mates.
4. GET RID OF THE MEMORIES
You have to keep yourself away from all those stuff that would remind you of your ex-lover. Complete eradication of such things would give you relief.
5.SELF- ASSESSMENT AND SELF-CONSOLING
No one knows you better than yourself. Go infront of mirror and tell yourself that you are not broken. You are perfect the way you are, and that person does not deserve you. Remember, if you love something let it go; if it is destined to be yours, it will be yours one day.
6.SPEND TIME FOR PASSION BUILD-UP
Diverting your mind by taking classes for dance, music, or even joining the gym can make you feel a lot better. It will change your mundane mind and fill with it with new thoughts,aspirations and pleasure.
7.MOTHERS CAN MAKE US FEEL GOOD
There is nothing in this world that is a better coffer of love and sinceriety. Mothers have a magic with them. Just go and help her with the household chores and open up your mind to her. A nice sweet talk with your mother can make you feel good. You can talk and discuss anything with your mothers without the fear of being judged. Finally, get a hug from her.There is no other therapy for a broken heart other than a mother’s cuddle.
8.CHANGE THE TASTE OF MUSIC
Rejection in love will naturally drag us to sad,gloomy songs. Try to replace your playtracks with a list of upbeat, happy songs. It will give you a new happy wave .Music is the best remedy to transform our mental state.
9.ARTICULATE YOUR EMOTIONS
According to Wordsworth, “poetry is the spontaneous overflow of feelings recollected in tranquility .”Pen out your internal mental conflicts. I am 200% sure that articulation will help you to free yourself from emptiness and rejection.
10.CONFRONT YOUR REJECTION
The best method to convince yourself that you are strong is by confronting that person who rejected you. I am not suggesting you get into an open fight with them. All I am saying is do not vanish from the frame during the presence of that person. Either you ignore them or smile at that person. It would let the other person know that you are doing going even without them, and this will give you a feeling of satisfaction from being emotionally independent of them.
All the Best 🙂
About the author
I'm doing ma graduation in english literature.I belong to kerala basically.
Writing has been my passion since my childhood.There are certain things which can't be orally communicated.But such expressions n emotions can be penned out.I believe writers can change the world
"pen is mightier than the sword"