There comes a time in everybody’s life when you are so broken that you might get confused whether to feel and care or entirely give up on everything. Some people will sympathize with you, and others will prey on your weakness. You don’t want unnecessary sympathy, and neither do you want to satisfy the people who prey on others’ broken states. This is the time when you should stop caring about unnecessary things and give life a new perspective.
If you want to stop caring about what others think about you, you should change how you see yourself. No one can hurt you more than you and the thought in your head.
- Stop caring about what others think about you. Stop caring if others say that you don’t have a model-like figure; stop caring if others say that you are not perfect; their criticism won’t hurt you if you stop caring about what they think and start caring about what you think.
It’s your life; start thinking only positive things about yourself, and you will soon realize that people’s opinions about you are worth nothing if you do not let them affect you.
- Do what you want to do, even if it’s something embarrassing. Please don’t give a f*ck about what people say or what you think they might say. People will always judge you no matter what cause, frankly speaking, and their life sucks so bad that they need to pick on others to make themselves feel superior and happy.
- Stop being afraid to say what you want to say. If you believe you are right, then say it out loud. Tell the truth even if it might get you some enemies. If someone else is getting hurt, then stand up for them and for everyone who gets hurt. If your actions are hurting someone, you have to start caring about your actions on others. If someone is trying to hurt you, ignore them or give them a piece of your mind.
- If you are done with the bullsh*t that others are giving you, then take a break and travel to the places you have always wanted to travel to, relax and breathe some fresh air.
Stop caring about all the bad things in your life by diverting your mind to life’s positive aspects. Want to visit old haunted buildings? Then visit them. Want to eat experimental food? Eat them. Want to wear out-of-fashion clothes? Wear them. Someone is breaking your heart? Break their valuable things. Tired of your boring life? Do something really crazy. Feeling old? Go start playing with little kids and recollect your childhood memories. Want some peace? Go on a long vacation. Want some enlightenment? Join on a spiritual journey and unfold the secrets of living. Want a break? Listen to your favorite music and dance around the room. Want some release? Lock yourself in the bedroom and cry out loud, cry till your tears dry out, and your heart is light.