Break-ups are a tough time. Knowing that you wouldn’t receive a good-morning text from your bae, and every second after that seems so long. People say that the female partners have a very rough time during and after a break-up and that male partners feel, umm, nothing!
Being a male symbolizes strength and power, masculinity; why will a break-up affect them? It wouldn’t affect them even a bit. Let me prove you wrong.
Males are secretive. They hide their feelings. You never know what they really are. Only when you have been with a guy closely you would feel the blood flowing through his body, know the thoughts that run in his mind, feel him, only then would you know that even though he might say he’s fine, he’s okay, he’s strong; he’s really not!
1.He’s not okay when he says he is.
Even if he pretends that the breakup hasn’t made him any lesser, weaker and that he’s enjoying every bit of his life, abort this illusion. He feels horrible, and it’s hard to get through it. Pretending something isn’t hurting hurts even more.
2.He has friends, family but not you.
He may hang out with his friends, stay with his family and meet people. Even though surrounded by people, he would still feel alone. Because the only person he needs, the only person who could make him feel better, is the person, he can’t have anymore. From the outside, ” Yeah, It’s so much fun with you guys “from inside.
” I feel so alone, only if I had her right now “.
The world’s not perfect. Men cry. Men get weak. They hurt themselves too. Break-up is as disastrous to them as it is to girls, or maybe even more.