Friendship is a pious relation. A good friend is considered to be the blessing of God. The liasion of mutual understanding, cooperation, support is what defines a true friendship . Lucky are the people who have honest pals as a part of their life. They break the miseries and sorrows and double the happiness.
“Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.”
Here are five signs to know whether you have a true friend or not:
1) Will always support you
A loyal chum will stand by your side whatsoever happens. He will never let you face the music alone. Even if he has no solutions, he’ll assure you about nothing to worry. He will at any cost by hook and crook find out the solution and solve the complexities.
2) Will be veracious to you
A true friend will always think of your benefit. He will be honest to you. He will guide you , scold you and won’t fear to tell you your mistakes even taking the risk of keeping the friendship at stake. He will be looking out for your betterment in all ways.
3) Will not be judgmental
A true friend is never judgmental. He never sets a criteria for friendship. He adores you in every way. He likes the way you behave, the way you look. For him personality, good looks, money are not the traits of a true friend. He only appreciates the honesty, truthfulness, dedication and support in you.
4) Will find time to spend with you
“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”
A true friend howsoever busy is will always try to find time for you. Chit chatting, talking, making fun of you, these are his favorable pass times with you. For him you are an immanent part of his life. He will try to find ways to spend time with you.
5) Will always forgive you
There are at times disputes between two different people. Friends do fight due to difference of opinions but what discerns a normal friend from a true friend is what ever happens the bond never breaks. He will forgive you without letting it affect the friendship. A dispute cannot weaken the bond. Instead it makes it more stronger.
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
In today’s world where everyone is our enemy. Everyone thinks of competing with you. No one cares for our emotions, our feelings. Only a give and take relation exists. Those who have true friends to support them are indeed blessed. When everyone around you is your enemy standing with a back throb a friend by your side heals the injuries. It gives you a sense of security and comfort and the mind knows, “Yes i have my pal with me, no worries.”
So value this devout relation. Worship it!