‘Relationship is not just holding hands while you understand each other. It’s also having lots of misunderstandings and still not leaving each other’s hands.’
A Relationship can be beautiful, full of love, and last longer only if guys could understand a few things about it. Sometimes their habits are so annoying that it leads to intense fights, and many times these fights could lead to breakups.
Every girl would love her man to work upon the things listed below:
Those random fits of anger that they get while talking to us are totally not acceptable. Just being a guy doesn’t give you the right to shout, abuse, or hold us tight to hurt us.
2. The ‘I, me, myself’ attitude
Your plans, mood, choices, priorities, parents, and space: for God’s sake, the Relationship is about ‘us’ and not about you alone. So kindly stop brooding over your life and pay attention to our future together. This is the least that is expected from you.
3. Good with words, Bad with actions
Yes, you can woo a girl by your sugar-coated words, but they don’t mean anything until and unless your actions reflect them. Pulling a chair, getting flowers, sending cute notes- all these things are expected throughout the relationship and not just during the initial stages.
4. Emotionally unavailable
Yes, we do like a guy who is there for us when we are hurt or at the time when we are brooding due to PMS. Saying things like ‘Oh come on, stop drooling over such small issues ’ is not a good way to soothe your partner. A Relationship is not just about satisfying the physical needs but also the emotional needs.
5. Popping their eyes when a diva walks by
The ‘wow’ feeling is clearly visible in his eyes when a hot girl passes by. Oh boy, can’t you see that we are standing by your side, and it isn’t the greatest feeling when you pay attention to other girls in our presence?
6. The ‘What is your relation with him?’ Punch line
For God’s sake, he is my best friend or just a colleague. Besides, there’s a difference between a best friend and a boyfriend. Is it that difficult to understand?
7. They always avoid discussions
‘Cut the crap,’ ‘Can we talk about this later, ‘Why do we have to discuss it.’ Guys are never ready for a discussion. They think that avoiding a problem is the best way to solve it.
8. Keeping track of every minute is not so cool
They always want the details of every little thing we do. Where have we been, with whom, at what time did we return, what did we do, etc.? Urgh!! Dude, it is a Relationship and not jail that you’d be keeping a check on us every time.
9. We can decide what to wear and what not to wear
‘That dress is too short,’ ‘Are you coming to the party in these clothes with me, seriously?’, ‘This outfit is too revealing, what will my friends think?’ Guys can be such a pain in the neck when they say such things. We are in a relationship, and that does not take away the liberty from me of choosing my clothes.
10. Not publically accepting the relationship
Holding hands in private and leaving it as soon as a friend comes. Calling us ‘love’ while we are alone and by names in public. They always hesitate to accept things in front of others. Where does all the affection go while everyone is around?
11. Keeping your ego aside and asking for forgiveness is not that difficult
That alpha male attitude doesn’t allow them to ask for forgiveness. Sometimes after a fight, even we expect an apology phone call, but only if your ego would let you do it. What is more important- your attitude or the smile on the face of your girl.
12. Flirting with your ex…WTH?
She was your past, and I am your present. Which sensible person flirts with his ex knowing that his girl would eventually come to know about it? Not only does it hurt us, but it also irritates us like hell.
Boys, watch out that you don’t do the things listed above. It could really irritate your girlfriend.