To all those guys who are confused about their relationships, there’s a list of the top ten picks on what your girl doesn’t want to hear from you. If you have some of these “offensive” qualities, they might create rifts in your relationship. My advice to you would be to try and get over these habits as soon as possible.
1. “…. My ex ……”
When you are with your girl, irrespective of the situation and mood, referring to your ex-girlfriend in between conversations is a very bad idea. You must try your best to focus on your currents relationship and forget your ex-partner.
2. “Ah! My Ex did it this way the other day.”
The moments you have with your present girlfriend are always the best, and they must be the best. But, remember if you have already had any previous experience with any such moment that you are going through, just enjoy it again and stay quiet. It’s a strict no-no to tell your partner about your past experiences because that would really upset her.
I hope you get my point. It is always a bad idea to talk about your past relationships with your current girlfriend.
3. “You are becoming fat.”
Yes, it’s okay for you to suggest your girl to shed a few kilos of weight if you think she doesn’t look pretty now. But be careful to choose your words wisely. Never tell her that she has become fat or ugly; instead, try to remind her how conscious she was of her body and looks.
4. “You spend a lot of time on make-up.”
Makeup is every girl’s passion, just like sports is the passion of most men. Every girl wants to look pretty and, to be honest, and deserves to feel pretty. If makeup makes a woman feel beautiful, then let her do as she wishes. Being a boy, I know it’s hard to understand this, but I suggest you be patient with her and never complain that she takes a lot of time to get ready because the truth of the matter is that she is doing it primarily to please you!
5. You are being too emotional.
Every person has an emotional side; we’re humans after all. But girls tend to get way too emotional at times, and none of us can change that! It may be frustrating if your girl gets sentimental for every small thing; however, the solution is to be patient and support her. That is what true love is all about!
6. “Your friend is really pretty.”
Oh yes! Many of her friends may look pretty, but that is not what she wants to hear from you. What she wants to hear is, you talking about her rather than anyone else. Always have a healthy bond and remember, in the long run, looks really don’t matter.
Okay, I know you’ve got to say “no” to her sometimes, but as long as she’s being fairly reasonable, you can surely try and accommodate her wishes. Try to give her a positive response as much as possible.
8. “You won’t understand.”
Just because she’s a woman? Or because she doesn’t understand the depth of your soul? Regardless of your reasons, this statement will offend her. Remember, she always tries to understand you, she always does!
9. “I don’t believe you.”
This would be the most offensive statement if ever you tend to say it out loud. If you have a problem, solve it! If you have a doubt, ask her! If you are still doubtful, question her again! Never, ever, say that you don’t believe her. The best way to get out of this is to sit together, discuss the facts, clarify doubts, and strengthen your bond.
10. “Your friends are a bit annoying.”
Maybe her friends are a little too annoying. They might end up taking most of your girlfriend’s time that she usually spends. Her friends might even be boring, cheeky…… Try to get on with them because at the end of the day, who cares? You’ve got your friends, and she’s got hers. Your relationship with your girlfriend shouldn’t be affected by the type of friends she has. After all, you are in a relationship with your girl and not with her friends. And that’s why if you get along well with your girlfriend, then nothing else really matters.
So, if you really love her, give her the best time you can and avoid making these mistakes!