Mother is a synonym for warrior. Priyanka Verma, also known as Self-Love Queen is an excellent example of that. She is a life coach, an author, and a mother of two beautiful daughters, whose smiles motivated her to take remarkable actions.
Rather than just accepting her life she fought all the battles life gave her. As she is on this inspiring journey she realizes that she was not the only one going through such things.
Therefore she decided she would help as many people as she could. Hence she started this journey and has since inspired more than 300 people to overcome self-sabotaging patterns and their fears with her inner potential of alignment framework.
“I want to leave a legacy behind my daughters” – Priyanka Verma
Priyanka Verma lives in Noida and never had plans to become a life coach, she was just an ordinary Indian girl. She was just 20 when she got married, and had her first child at the young age of 22. She played different roles and responsibilities for almost 12 to 13 years while she was a homemaker.
All of these factors combined to make her have mental and physical health issues during that period of her life when she nearly lost herself. “I used to scream in my head, Where are you, Priyanka? I was facing a lot of identity crisis about who am I exactly?
After all those days of suffering, one very fine day, she said that she was not going to suffer anymore, “I looked into my daughters’ eyes and asked myself what legacy I’m going to leave behind them? Hence I decided to work on myself and never looked back.” She started gaining knowledge about psychology and NLP techniques.
Priyanka Verma started learning such things and developed a keen interest in human psychology. “I understood if I could get over my fears, others could too. Hence I decided to continue helping as many people as I could in the last three years.”
“Every client of mine has taught me something” – Priyanka Verma
Priyanka Verma was a victim of severe depression and hypothyroidism. Also, sadly, she used to have anxiety and panic attacks. The one quality that we all should acquire is never to underestimate ourselves and she is the perfect example of no matter how often life knocks you down, you can always get back and live the life that you have dreamt of.
“From my first client till my latest client I’m working right now with, every client has taught me something. I experience their pain, feel their pain, and get to learn lessons from them. And then I realize how much pain is out there”.
She knows the pain of suffering from such things which made her a good listener. Priyanka Verma feels the urge to help more people every time she helps someone and aims to help and inspire many people throughout her life.
“Take a hundred percent of responsibility for yourself” – Priyanka Verma
On her journey from being a homemaker to becoming a life coach and helping more than 300 people, she realized that taking the first step in life is very important. “No one is going to help you to take your first step, only you will have to do this. Self-acceptance and self-love are crucial”
“I’m coming from the same typical background and we are not taught and raised to love ourselves. We were always taught to please others, to love others, and to give to others. But what about ourselves?”
Priyanka Verma asserts that we keep on pleasing others, and simultaneously we lose ourselves. “What do we need, what do we want? What are my values? What are my emotions? What are my priorities? In all this, we forget about ourselves”.
According to her, once you start loving yourself the way you love others, you will not need anyone to heal you. Priyanka Verma strongly believes that self-awareness is very important for every individual as it gives the knowledge to understand one’s emotions in more depth. She takes workshops on the topic Self Love and you can learn about it more when you visit her Instagram page.
“Success is not only about work and career, it’s about holistic success” – Priyanka Verma
Whenever we talk about success, we start picturing things such as luxury cars, a big home, and a successful business or a job. But according to Priyanka Verma life is not just about worldly things.
“You can only call yourself successful when your soul is satisfied with your life. I’m working with many clients and the first question I ask them is on a scale of 0-10 how much do you love yourself? The majority of the people aren’t able to answer that question and if they dare to answer that question they only give 3,4, or 5 to themselves which is very sad. I was also there at one point in my life so I understand their pain”.
Priyanka Verma has also written a book named “Awaken the Self Love Queen Within You“, which was in the top 5 best sellers and ranked 26th in the philosophy category when it was published. This book helps you to understand yourself better. The author has mentioned the five pillars of self-love in the book.
If you are curious to know what those 5 pillars of self-love are, you can order this insightful book from Amazon.
Priyanka Verma’s journey tells us that if we are passionate about something and believe in ourselves, no power in the world can stop us. She truly deserves the title ‘Self-Love Queen’.
According to the life coach, life will throw every difficult thing your way but if you have a reason to just get up and fight, you will reach where you want to be.
In Priyanka Verma’s life, her beautiful daughters became the reason and motivated her to do such inspirational things. We need more strong-headed women like her who can motivate others to love themselves no matter what and our nation will surely reach the heights we can only imagine.
