Couples and Teachers
Here are why teachers dislike a relationship forming in the class. Especially when you’re a boy who loves a girl in class.
1. The General Perception
The general perception of adults in today’s society anywhere around the world but especially in India is that none of the men below the age of 25 have the age or experience such as themselves and so cannot judge who is the right partner for their future.
They believe that the critical evaluation process they take up to choose a bride is the only way humanly possible for two lives to bond, and hence the youngsters do not need to have a say in the matter. And as you see, this is a mutual happening for a teacher’s understanding of students having relationships, especially guys.
2. Education Is Foremost; Everything Else Is a Distraction
The one thing that all teachers believe alike is that the purpose of a student’s presence in a school or university is just his education and nothing else.
Especially in India, not only is the idea of love alien in an educational institution, but also any male or female student caught in a precarious situation is questioned quite thoroughly, with their first point of argument being, “You have come to this institution only for education and nothing else.” This I say with personal experience.
3. No Understanding of Love
In today’s world, the idea of love is foreign to many teachers and students alike. No one has a true understanding of love, and the depth of the tying commitment one has to a person he loves. So, when a teacher truly objects to the belief that the guy’s feelings are illusionary, it’s good on his part, else he is just an ass.
4. His Life Is Tiring and Boring!
Well, the best reason there possibly could be is that the teacher’s life is so tiring and boring that he boils with envy and rage that the students in his class are doing a better job of it being so young while he is an “experienced” person was better off watching porn rather than expecting some action at home!
5. Has a Taboo Crush on The Girl
Getting to the serious part here, one more reason the teacher hates the guy for loving a girl is probably because of various reasons like losing sight of his age, etc., he has his eyes set on the girl. Beware, these people might have some serious psychological disorders and could be very intent on getting the “ass” out of the way for his future with the girl.
6. Disgusted by Age
Some people have their age and hormones out of sync, and hence even after crossing a certain age, they are wishful. Hence, they get disgustingly envious when a guy is in love or dates a girl.
7. General Disapproval
Sometimes it so happens that you are never in the good books with a teacher or professor. Hence, even if she is not especially interested in the student’s lifestyle, they place the guy under severe scrutiny just because he is doing it. And the rest could go to hell for all they care.
Some people have a way of exaggerating things and creating misunderstandings. Like in the case of Indian professors, most of them, if they see a guy going out with a girl, they drag it so far as if the guy has already done the “unthinkable” and the girl is 9 months pregnant. Suppose the girl is stout by any chance; who knows, they might even want a pregnancy test out of her.
9. Maintaining Rep on The Outside
What people think about us outside the borders of our homes is very important to every person, especially in our country. But to teachers and professors, it is on a whole different level. They mold like foxes to the majority say, be it in support or dismay, it all depends on the guys’ luck.
10. The Guy Is Actually an Ass
Sometimes the professor tends to be right, and the guys actually end up being a low-life asshole who is just using girls as their playthings for whatever purpose it serves. In today’s society of rape and discrimination against women, it is not hard to imagine.
11. Think Up Now
I have racked up my brain enough for it. What do you personally feel is the reason?
-A. Vijay Bharadwaj